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The origin of massage is difficult to conclude, however what is known is that several cultures have used massage as a form of medical treatment and healing for hundreds of years. Countries in Europe, Asia and The Middle East all have a history of massage with literature that mentions techniques of massage such as kneading, pressing, rubbing, and tapping as a form of healing.
The origin of the actual word “massage” is derived from two possible languages, either the Arabic word “mass,” which means ‘to touch’, or the Greek word “massein,” which means ‘to knead’. “The Yellow Emperor’s Classics of Internal Medicine” is the oldest medical book in existence and was written in China around 1000 BC, it mentions the treatment of paralysis and reduced circulation-using massage. As long as massage has been around so has Erotic Massage with references that date back to around the tenth century AD. Karma Sutra is a great example of erotic massage and its long existence in which massage was used either alongside or instead of lovemaking.
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In modern times, Erotic Massage is used predominately by couples as a form of foreplay or part of lovemaking. However, Erotic Massages also known as Happy Ending Massages, are available from massage parlours, and are particularly popular in Asian countries like China and Thailand.
Erotic Massage For Couples
Erotic Massage used by couples to stimulate each other is the perfect tools for sexual foreplay. It is through the stimulation and stroking of the skin that sexually sensitive nerve receptors throughout the body are set alight. Touching, caressing and fondling the skin will kindle the flame of sexual desire; while at the same time the emotions and the soul are nourished.
With any massage oils are essentials, preferably scented, flavoured or edible particularly in the case of Erotic Massage. Set the atmosphere, clean sexy bedding, and dimmed lighting such as candles, burn incense, and add some sensual/relaxing music. It’s important to relax the person you are massaging. Ever noticed that when you are relaxed or tired you feel like sex more? Well this is what you want to achieve combined with arousing those erogenous zones. Also be sure that the room is at a comfortable temperature.
Begin by connecting with your partner. There may be particular ways you and your partner prefer to do this. When both of you are ready, have your partner get naked and lie on the massage table or bed. Face down is best to begin with. Complete a relaxing massage on the back, neck, shoulders, legs, and feet. A relaxing massage should include being sensitive with a consistent rubbing motion with the hands over the body. Take your time; it is easy to feel the tight muscles where tension resides, so work on these areas. You will notice the muscle begin to relax and they become easier to massage. Start with long gliding strokes and slowly go into deeper ones. When giving a massage it is easier on your back and arms if you use your own body weight to give better pressure.
Once your partner’s body is relaxed, have them turn onto their back, and begin massaging the chest, arms, and hands. Slowly make your way down to their legs, and brush past the genitals, to give your partner a tingle. After finishing the front of the body, glide back up toward the genitals slowly brush over them again. Touch and caress the inner thighs very lightly touching the pubic region, etc can draw out this teasing process. The remainder of the Erotic Massage will focus on the erogenous zones such as the genitals.
Male Suggested Genital Massage
Healing Stroke – Cup the man’s testicles with one hand, make sure his penis is lying on his stomach. With the palm of the other hand, glide the heel of the palm in strokes up and down the underside of the penis all the way to the top; try not to be too heavy handed.
Anvil Stroke – This stroke requires you to do an alternating motion. Use one hand to stroke the penis from top to bottom, then release the hand and use your other hand to do the same. Alternating after each hand has finished stroking.
Climbing the Mountain – Take the penis in one hand and give it one quick up-and-down stroke. Slow down the strokes and caress the penis, teasing him and then give the penis two quick up-and-down strokes. Repeat the caressing, and then give three quick strokes, etc. Continue until ejaculation approaches inevitability.
Females are a little more complicated and their sexual response is often significantly different from that of a male.
Females are different in the following ways:
- Female arousal tends to be more closely tied to emotional states, and feelings of warmth towards her partner.
- Many women can come in two ways: through G-Spot stimulation and through clitoral stimulation.
- Women often vary in what type of sexual stimulation they like, and how they like it done.
- Female arousal usually takes longer to build, but can often last longer and be more intense than that which men commonly experience.
- Women can often have multiple orgasms, if stimulation continues following the first (especially with G-Spot stimulation).
Take all of the above into account when dealing with her erogenous zones. Talk to her, and ask her what she likes. If you have been with your partner a long time, you will already be aware of what she likes.
When performing genital massage on women use your free hand to interact with other parts of her body. Tease her nipples, massage her perineum, caress her face, form “connections” with other parts of her body. You can also use vibrators, feathers, lubes and oils, which can all be purchased from The Love Shop.
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